Ever wondered what exactly happens at a sex party? Had questions about what exactly happens at one? Meet sex party veterans like Luna Matatas, sex party organizer Nigel March, model manager Jon Shields, drag performer Brock Hessel, sex toy brand proprietor Carlyle Jansen, and sex club owner Fatima Mechtab, who reveal that orgies or “sex parties” aren’t as easy and alluring as they sound. Understand the ground rules, the etiquette of hooking up, and the stigma attached to this highly confidential culture that is thriving in the digital age.